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Sorry can be the HARDEST thing to say for your partner — I am certain you agree!
By saying this, you are admitting that you have messed up and have hurt among the people you love the most. It is never simple.
But the thing is, we are all human and we ALL make mistakes. And unfortunately, sometimes we make mistakes which actually hurt our spouses.
When this happens, it is our job to take responsibility for our actions and apologize, EVEN whenever your mistake is so BIG you feel like there’s almost “too much” to apologize for.
It is a fact that the deeper the hurt, the longer the healing process will require.
Continue below to learn what these steps are, and don’t hesitate to share your own thoughts and experiences in the conclusion. Bring Husband Back Home Spell
5 Step to Say “I Am Sorry” and Really Mean It. Bring Husband Back Home Spell
1. Forgive yourself
You could be thinking something like: “How on earth could I ever forgive myself?” Or “How do an apology begin with ME?”
But there are numerous reasons why it is imperative to attempt to make peace with yourself once you have made a mistake.
First of all, dwelling on thoughts that are remorseful and self-loathing will use all of your emotional energy up.
This isn’t going to be useful for you or your marriage, as it keeps the focus on the issue, rather than what you can do to FIX it. If you can accept the mistake you have made, you will have the ability to then focus your energy on what you can do to make up for it.
Let me be clear here. By forgiving yourself, you are not clearing yourself of any blame… You freely admit that you’ve made a mistake.
But you are also acknowledging that the behaviour you have done wrong does not mean you are a terrible person as a whole and you’ve got the opportunity to be your best self from now on…
2. Apologize to your partner and accept full responsibility
When it comes to stating sorry, the sooner the better. However, an apology has to be said with genuine sincerity and feeling to be effective.
So you will need the time to calm down before you confer with your partner, take this moment. An sarcastic or angry apology will make the situation even more worse.
As difficult as it is, look into your spouse’s eyes once you go to confer with them.
For example; “I am so sorry that I forgot we had plans for dinner tonight. I understand how much you had been looking forward to going out and how disappointed and hurt you must’ve felt when I came home late”.
Lastly, never never NEVER say “I’m sorry” and follow this up with a “but” or an excuse.
For instance: “I’m so sorry I forgot we had plans for dinner tonight. I know how much you had been looking forward to going out and how disappointed and hurt you must’ve felt when I came home. BUT the reason why I forgot about dinner is because YOU did not remind me this afternoon. You know I’m busy with work and find it hard to keep track of what is going on occasionally”.
This is going to make your apology meaningless, and even imply that you are BLAMING your partner — that is just going to push them farther away.
So accept full responsibility for your actions… don’t attempt to reevaluate your error to make yourself feel better (because believe me, it will not work!) And focus only on YOUR actions, not your spouse’s. Bring Husband Back Home Spell
3. Make promises for the future
Come up with a strategy to ensure your mistake won’t be repeated in the future and communicate this to your partner. Make sure any promises you make can be followed upon.
“I will have absolutely no further contact with that person. I will delete him/her from my phone, Facebook, Twitter, and also will let you know immediately if he/she tries to get in contact with me.
I am happy to give you open access to all of my account and my phone if this would be helpful to you|If this would be helpful to you, I am happy to give you open access to all my accounts and my telephone. I promise to keep in regular communication with you and from now on I will always be at home when I say I will.
I really want to make this work and will do whatever it takes. I will clear my schedule out of work so that I could spend as much time with you as possible — as much time as you are comfortable with right now.” Bring Husband Back Home Spell
4. Accept your spouse’s reaction
A common assumption that a partner frequently makes is that when they have apologized, wife or their husband should stop being sad or mad and give forgiveness to them.
And when this doesn’t happen, the apologizing spouse stinks and says something along the lines of: “I have just apologized! What more to you need me to do?! Why can not you just accept it and move on?!”
The thing is, you can ask your husband or wife for their forgiveness, but you can not FORCE them to forgive you. Whether they do or not is their decision.
Therefore don’t expect anything from your spouse at the moment.
Yes, you’re making yourself vulnerable and yes, it might feel excruciating being met angry words or by your spouse’s silence. This truly is the HARDEST part about saying “I am sorry”.
Therefore avoid acting defensively AT ALL COSTS, even though this might be your initial instinct — since it is only going to reverse the good you have just done by apologizing.
And now is definitely not the time to start pointing fingers and trying to get back at your partner for whatever they have done.
All you can do right now, as hard as it will be, is give your spouse time to come to terms with your own apology and also see for themselves the changes in your behaviour. Forgiveness will come with time. Bring Husband Back Home Spell
5. Follow your apology up with positive actions
Saying sorry is vital, but it isn’t enough on its own to heal your spouse’s harm and move forward. It’s the ACTIONS that follow which actually do the majority of the relationship fixing.
Apologies have to get backed up with positive changes in behavior, as otherwise your spouse will lose faith in you and will become more hurt and betrayed consequently.
If you’ve betrayed your partner in some manner, the key is to be ABSOLUTELY transparent with your partner in future — do not attempt to hide or cover up anything.
Keep the lines of communication open and be honest about what — where you’re, what you’re doing, who you’re with, what you are spending… EVERYTHING.
This might appear over-the-top, but the simple truth is that your partner is very likely to be feeling really vulnerable at the moment, and their trust in you has been ruined. So in order for their hope to be regained, you need to leave literally zero doubts in their own mind.
And remember, one huge gesture of flowers and chocolates after you’ve messed up is nice, but it’s not going to have exactly the same impact as continuous small steps to improve your behaviour and reveal your partner how much you appreciate them.
Even if your partner does not accept your apology straight away, DO NOT GIVE UP. By continuing to demonstrate how sorry you are through loving actions, you’ve got the best hope of regaining their love and trust. Bring Husband Back Home Spell